[Reprint] mother should teach children 6 things _ Crystal

Original address: mother should teach children 6 things author: Lijun children needed is not the same, mothers must consider what is the real needs of the child. The following is what is the children's needs from their labor as mother there some perspective. (A) develop their of love mothers need to warm and courteous kids and interpersonal skills and excellent academic and sports the same importance. Those in emotional received some training of children will have a psychologist Daniel stated that emotional quotient, others need yourself and coordination ability, these people have more than others of the opportunity in life. (2) more praise and encourage we all know that recognition can work miracles, too much criticism leads to child too much blame myself, so that their penetration in order to be successful for some adventure. Praise also has the right way and wrong way. Most parents, you can criticize the child, and the total total breakdown in speech recognition, but vague-"you're a wonderful child" this evaluation will enable a moment of brilliance suddenly vanished. So what should the specific table Yang, instead of saying "you're very brave" rather than "I fell for you will still be proud to climb aboard. "This clearly explains why this behavior is worthy of praise. Everyone has a "critical zone", this area once praised receive unexpected results. As a mother, you may have more than anyone else to know for your children what's important may be music, sports or a course, if you don't understand, ask if there's nothing wrong. Secondly, because the children time can only absorb so much praise, so small and frequently give some praise. (3) about "taboo" we live in a world full of danger. A world in which the children looking to come into contact with all drugs, alcohol and sex. Some mothers worry about such taboo acts are encouraged to do so. But to the contrary, the survey found that those with parents had frankly and child less involved with drugs and alcohol. (4) the limits of the relaxing children need unconditional love, decency of seeds will be growth. This unconditional love does not mean that you do not set any limits, set limits to children shows he is very important to you. When a child is out of range, to explain to them that such acts do not themselves feel disappointed. ��As the child grows, the limits of nature to relax. Especially boys, they want to remain with their mothers. Mother is the children and the source of great encouragement. Psychologists Aden-extraction of silk in the investigated 250 children found nearly half of the children would like to obtain a copy of the mother and not the father's work. (5) specified Party asked children need a moral compass. This means that not only educate on important issues, and in view of the non-trivial equip non-Outlook on. When a mother on the child's sense of responsibility, integrity, loyalty and giving sufficient attention to them as children a value system, which will become the child's priceless. The best moral guide is the mother's own acts, if the mother's own escape responsibility, disregard for the rights of others or break my word that her child will lose its behavior in the wizard. (6) and children playing with in short time, mothers usually concern the so-called important things-capture children, coaching lessons. But in our life rhythm and tension in society, the children were eager for more than just these, they prefer to spend quality time with her mother. This does not need to spend a lot of time, you only need to have a mind playing attitude, a willingness to do his homework time into play or the housework into the attitude of the game. As a mother is a great responsibility, but does not mean that there is a burden that sometimes you need less of a sense of responsibility-make your own request to hell, and your children to play together.